The Secret to a Long Life


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Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. Psalm 90:12

In the past month, I happened to meet two 94-year olds – at different places and different times.

Both of them, walking and talking. Healthy as can be. It truly was amazing!

Being the kind of person that I am, I struck up conversations (accidentally) with them. I had no idea they were 94 until I started chatting. So I just had to ask,

“What is the secret to a long life?”

And you won’t believe that both of them said the same exact thing. Now, these are two 94 year olds who don’t even know each other. One was a woman getting her pedicure and manicure done (no, I’m not kidding. She had her nails done in a pretty red color). The other was a man scouring for the best humidifier at Walmart.

Their response to my question was,

“Keep busy!”

Coincidence?! I don’t know, but it sure was quite interesting to hear literally the same exact answer!

The woman was a military wife that traveled the whole globe, moving every two years. She said she absolutely loved the adventure of going to a new place. And the man retired at 60, sold his house, and then traveled the whole United States in an RV with his wife. This travel-loving couple even went to Europe a few times.

As they were telling me about their busy and full lives, I was trying to think what the Bible says on this matter. I remembered Proverbs talks a lot about laziness. At least 20 passages in Proverbs talk about this particular subject. God truly wants us to be busy people. He wants us to be busy physically AND spiritually. There is no time to waste on this earth! Jesus said in Luke 10:2

“The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.”

There is so much work to be done for the Lord. So many who still do not know Christ! Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom, a wife, a teacher, a dentist, or a combination of many listed, God wants us to be working. Now of course God commands us to rest on the 7th day, since even God himself rested Genesis tells us. But stay busy, my friend! You might not live to be 94, but that’s ok! You won’t regret living this life for God.

Know some elderly folks? Ask them what the secret to a long life is!


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The Little Things to be Thankful For


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Of course I’m thankful for Jesus, my husband, my children, health, a home, a job, food, and clothing…

However, sometimes it’s the little things we forget to thank God for. So I decided to make a list of all those other little blessings in life.

  • Hot showers: seriously, some people don’t know what this is. Many countries do not have plumbing. Let alone, heated water.
  • Sunsets: simply because they are breathtaking. And it’s my favorite time for photos.
  • Vacuum cleaner: imagine sweeping your whole house!
  • The smell of paper: no nook or kindle can substitute a good, old book.
  • Chocolate: no explanation necessary.

So these are the top 5 things that came to mind first. What top “small” things come to your mind that you’re thankful for? SHARE in the Comments Sections.


Favorite Thing About Fall?


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The coming of fall is always so bittersweet to me. I’m crazy about summer: going to the beach, relaxing by the poolside, cookouts, the list goes on.

However, fall is such a beautiful time too! I’m so thankful for seasons. That ensures we don’t get tired of one particular season, right? God truly made everything so beautiful. Even though we complain so much sometimes, but seeing God’s blessings is so important. Even if everything isn’t “picture perfect”, we are still so blessed! God teaches us through hardships of all kind.

One of my favorite chapters of the Bible is Ecclesiastes 3:

“To everything there is a season,
A time for every purpose under heaven:

 A time to be born,
    And a time to die;
A time to plant,
    And a time to pluck what is planted;
 A time to kill,
    And a time to heal;
A time to break down,
    And a time to build up;
 A time to weep,
    And a time to laugh;
A time to mourn,
    And a time to dance;
 A time to cast away stones,
    And a time to gather stones;
A time to embrace,
    And a time to refrain from embracing;
 A time to gain,
    And a time to lose;
A time to keep,
    And a time to throw away;
 A time to tear,
    And a time to sew;
A time to keep silence,
    And a time to speak;
 A time to love,
    And a time to hate;
A time of war,
    And a time of peace.”

So what’s your favorite thing about fall? Take the poll…

I will rejoice in the Lord 


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I am sitting a school dinner, and the lady beside me introduces herself. She then proceeds to tell me that Dmitriy saved her life. She heard he was my brother in law. But at this point, I’m really confused how he could’ve saved her life.

Then, she shows me a picture of her car:


“Just 6 days earlier, Dmitriy tinted my car. The paramedics said that if the glass on this car wasn’t tinted, this back window would’ve shattered into a million pieces and quite possibly have killed me.”

Upon hearing the story, I knew that God’s hand was at work. In every part of our lives, His Mighty Hand is visible. Sometimes harm is done to us. We get into car accidents, we get ill, we get hurt both physically and emotionally, we’re strained financially, and the list goes on. But God is still in control. He cares for each and every one of us.

Therefore, anything that happens, happens for a reason. Sometimes it can be really hard for us to see that or to completely understand that, especially when catastrophes happen in our lives.

However, the prophet Habakkuk in Chapter 3 of his book puts it like this,

“Though the fig tree may not blossom,
Nor fruit be on the vines;
Though the labor of the olive may fail,
And the fields yield no food;
Though the flock may be cut off from the fold,
And there be no herd in the stalls—

 Yet I will rejoice in the Lord,
I will joy in the God of my salvation.”

I wish I could say I always rejoice regardless of the circumstances, but I’ll be honest and admit that I complain here and there. Yet, these words are very inspirational.

May they inspire you as well to be thankful and rejoice. Regardless the circumstances. Regardless the pain. 

When Life Gets Tough


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Maybe the world was always so messed up. I’m not exactly sure. When I was a kid, it seemed pretty good. My parents fed me, clothed me, lavished me with toys, gave me a safe and loving home. I was sure everyone lived like this.

Until I became an adult. The protection of my parents concealing the harshness of this world was gone. I live in a safe and loving home now with a husband who feeds and clothes me now. But I now know, not everyone lives like this. Many children, and adults alike, live in broken homes. Some don’t live in homes at all.

The pink clouds of childhood is gone. The news scream of how this sin-infiltrated world is falling apart.

However, now I know exactly how much this world needs Jesus.

This world will never be perfect. As long as the devil exists, the world will remain broken. The world needs a Savior. Broken hearts need to be mended from all the hurt. Living in sin will never bring humanity happiness. If money and fame brought happiness, rich and famous people wouldn’t commit suicide, they wouldn’t divorce, and they wouldn’t need therapists. Yet, all people, rich and poor, famous and nonfamous, need One therapist.

The Therapist knows living in sin is not easy. It might seem easy to live however we want is the better option. Yet, it’s a lie the devil hands us on a pretty plate. Living with lies, abuse, jealousy, hate, addictions, fear [insert any sin here], is an easy life?

In Matthew 11:28-130 Jesus says,

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

Jesus walked our paths some 2,000 years ago. He felt hunger, pain, sadness, loneliness, rejection just like we do. He felt it all (except sin of course)! He was a human, yet a God, living in this broken world. He saw the injustice. He saw how much people needed a Savior. That is exactly why He died for us.

He knows your hurt. He wants to heal you and give you hope for a future. If you think living in sin is a better option, think again. When life gets tough, who can you turn to?

When life is tough, go to Jesus.

When life is good, thank Jesus.

When life is over, you’ll meet Jesus.

When life gets tough

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Is The Bible Old-Fashioned?


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What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun. Ecclesiastes 1:9

People say the Bible is an outdated and old-fashioned book, and that it doesn’t need to be followed. I’m not much of a Bible scholar, yet, looking through history, I notice one pattern. Humans were always wicked. From the first murder crime scene (Cain killing Abel) to the last crime you heard last on the news today, these events all have one major thing in common.


Even with new technologies appearing every day, the human heart is still full of evil. Unless Jesus’ blood has cleansed a person from sin, the master of that heart is the Devil.

So, if human hearts have always been the same, then why would the advice in the Bible be old-fashioned? To this day, God’s Word remains wise and true. To read and obey His Word is the best thing we can do in this life. The more we read His Word, the more we get to know God. It’s not always easy, but living in sin is hard too. We serve Satan when we live in sin. God wants us to live for Him and only Him.

Have a preference for which version to read? Share with us in the comments which version and why!

Blessings to you all!

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What Steals Our Happiness?


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“You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.” Exodus 20:17

Admit it. You’ve been there. I know I have. Being a completely normal human being, it’s an emotion we have all felt at one point in our lives. However, it’s what you do with this emotion that makes a different in the world.


Ugh, it can get very ugly.

We see someone do something better than us. Buy something more expensive than us. Look skinnier, prettier, more fabulous than us.

However, underneath all the fabulousness, we have no clue what hardships they are going through. Each and every one of us has something we have to deal with. No exceptions. No one’s life is perfect. God gives us hardships in our lives to test us. To make us stronger. To bring us closer to Him. In hardships, we seek Him. Even though in happy times, we should also seek Him and praise the Lord.

With all that said, that amazing and perfect perfect person you’re so jealous of has some other hardship to deal with, that you might not have to!

Jealous of the rich guy? He might have a health issue, but God gives you perfect health. Jealous of that girl’s flawless beauty. You probably have no idea about the mean coworkers. Jealous of that beautiful singing voice? God gave you a talent He wants you to use for Him!

These examples are ones I simply made up, but I’m sure they happen all over the world. The list of causes to be jealous is impossible to count.

Cain was jealous of Abel. In conclusion, killed his brother.

Leah was jealous of Rachel’s love from her husband, and Rachel was jealous of Leah’s ability to have many babies. Neither of them were happy with what they had. In conclusion, both lived unhappily.

King Saul was jealous of David’s bravery and popularity. In conclusion, Saul wasted his life trying to kill David. Failing miserably, committed suicide.

Notice a pattern? People are always looking on the other side of the fence, thinking someone else has it better than them. Instead of counting their own blessings, they count someone else’s. What’s the point?

In conclusion, be thankful for what God gave YOU, not someone else.

What steals our happiness

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5 Spring Family Dates


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To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. Ecclesiastes 3:1

I have a really hard time deciding on what’s my favorite season. I’ve narrowed it down to 2: spring or summer. Even though, every season has its own beauty, I LOVE how everything comes to life in spring. The feeling is just…indescribable. God is good!

So I’ve compiled a list of things you can do with your family to enjoy this wonderful season. I’ve heard way to many times, “I’m bored,” from one of my family members, so there always need to be a go-to list for fun activities. You might have your own ideas up your sleeve, so this is just a place to get inspired!

Oh, want to leave the kids behind with grandma? No worries! These work as regular dates as well.

  1. Explore a new park
  2. Plant a garden or a fruit tree
  3. Picnic
  4. Canoeing/kayaking
  5. Visit another town nearby

5 Spring Family Date Ideas

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Mommy Wisdom Wednesday: Day 3


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Let’s look at more wise and wonderful examples from Biblical heroes…


*Daniel had the opportunity to be satisfied with worldly things, since he lived in the king’s palace after all.

*However, he did not make himself unclean from those things.

*Just like Daniel, we can keep ourselves clean from the world. We all have our weaknesses, but with God’s help, we CAN do it!

*Relied on God in even the toughest of situations.

*Trusted God to give him and his friends life. Yet, proclaimed he was ready to die for God if necessary!

*God showed His power through Daniel and his friends’ faith.

*Prayed, regardless of harsh circumstances.



*Someone in Mary’s home made sure she knew about God.

*Regarded herself in a lowly state; was humble.

*Didn’t question God’s plan, even though there was a great risk of her being stoned.

*Wasn’t thinking about her own self when the Angel told her about becoming pregnant with Jesus.

*In order to praise God with words like Mary, your heart has to be filled with praise first.



*Wanted to please Jesus, not people.

*Regardless of his young age, Paul trusted him completely with important tasks.

*Timothy’s grandmother and mother passed on their genuine faith.

*Even though there was division in the house because Timothy’s father was not a believer, Timothy was still raised to serve God. (Do you know of any families where one is a believer and one isn’t?)

*Being a mom is a hard ministry, but it can bring lots of blessings when done with God’s help.


And my favorite quote from the Introduction section of A Mom After God’s Own Heart:

“Our families are fertile fields for receiving gospel seeds. It is the most difficult land to work, but it yields the greatest harvests.” -Elizabeth George

Mommy Wisdom Wednesday

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